Vu tra xac thai nhi: Nha trai bang hoang khi nha gai voi va pha thai

> Quan long vu hai nha tra xac thai nhi

 

Hai ong ba Dung – Doan: “Chi vi chuyen tra xac thai nhi ma con trai toi vuong vong lao ly”.

 

Trao doi voi PV Bao GD&XH, bo me cua Nguyen Cong Toan - nguoi duoc cho la “tac gia” bao thai cho biet, con trai ho phu nhan chuyen lam bo. Vi vay, ho khong the cuoi N.T.T va buoc phai dem tra xac thai nhi ve cho nha ba Thom.

 

3 lan trao doi  van chua thong nhat

De rong duong du luan, PV Bao GD&XH da co buoi gap go gia dinh Nguyen Cong Toan. Ba Pham Thi Dung (SN 1969)- me cua Toan cho biet: Khi nguoi than cua N.T.T qua nha Toan noi chuyen “trot dai” cua 2 dua, vo chong ba Dung da nghi con trai bi N.T.T “gai bay”. Ba Dung noi: “Con trai toi la mot dua hien lanh, khong bao gio choi boi, pha phach thi khong the co chuyen do duoc. Mac du vay, toi van noi voi gia dinh ba Thom de hoi lai Toan roi moi quyet dinh. Sau do, gia dinh toi co goi dien thoai cho con trai, Toan noi chac nhu dinh dong cot: “Bo me cu yen tam, khong phai cua con, con khong ve”. Sau do, gia dinh co them nhieu lan hoi chuyen “vung trom” voi T, Toan van mot muc khang dinh khong phai la “tac gia” bao thai.

Mac du vay, gia dinh ba Dung van bat con trai ve de lam ro moi chuyen. “Ve toi nha, no xuong noi chuyen voi chau N.T.T roi thua lai voi chung toi: “Khong co gi dau, bo me khong phai giai quyet, con di lam day” roi tu hom do no di chi lien he qua dien thoai. Trong khi chung toi chua biet day co phai la con chau nha toi hay khong, vay ma chua dau vao dau  gia dinh nha day da cho con di pha thai, lai con mang xac thai nhi vut vao gia dinh nha toi. Chung toi khong the chon cat duoc boi chua biet day co phai la chau chung toi khong. Thang Toan thi no nhat muc bao day khong phai cua no, khong duoc ep no cuoi. Chung toi danh mang xac thai nhi xuong tra cho gia dinh nha nguoi ta thoi. Khong ngo khi toi cung chau Trung va mot dua chau nua xuong tra lai thi xay ra xo xat. Chi vi cai thai nhi ma gio con trai toi dinh vao vong lao ly”, ba Dung noi.

Ngoi ben canh, ong Nguyen Cong Doan (SN 1966) – bo cua Toan cho biet: “Vo chong toi khong hay biet moi quan he nay. Thang Toan khong he noi chuyen yeu duong gi ca. Neu that long hai chau thuong yeu nhau, co qua da thi chung toi cung san sang lam dam cuoi cho chung no neu cai thai do la con chau chung toi. Hai ben gia dinh cung chua noi chuyen thong nhat, gia dinh chau T cung moi chi len trao doi voi gia dinh nha toi co 3 lan ma da voi va di pha thai khien vo chong toi bang hoang, khong the tuong tuong noi”. 

Quyet pha thai bang duoc “Do qua phan uat vi nghi nha Toan vo trach nhiem nen kien quyet dua con gai di pha thai du thai da qua to. Len Van Dinh khong duoc, me con toi lai bat xe len Ha Dong tim noi lam bang duoc. Luc lam xong, chau no dau qua nen phai nam lai den chieu muon moi ve”, ba Thom, me cua T noi noi.

Toan la con thu 2 trong gia dinh co 5 anh chi em. Ngoai lam ruong, nhung luc nong nhan, bo me Toan deu phai di lam thue lam muon. Chi hoc het lop 9, Toan nghi hoc di phu ho voi bo. Moi day, Toan xin len lam sua chua o to o Ha Noi. Trong suot thoi gian xay ra su viec, Toan di lam xa nha nen moi viec chi trao doi qua dien thoai. Khi bo me yeu cau ve nha de den nha T noi chuyen, Toan ve roi lai bat xe tro lai cho lam ngay.

 

Van co the co thai khi quan he ben ngoai

Du khong thua nhan cai thai do la cua minh, nhung theo loi ba Thom, khi Toan xuong nha ba Thom noi chuyen da xac nhan “cai thai khong phai cua chau, vi chung chau chi quan he ben ngoai thoi!”.

BS san khoa Le Thi Kim Dung – Trung tam y te Thai Ha (Ha Noi) cho biet: Viec ban trai quan he ben ngoai hay chi moi “vao am dao mot chut” khong the dam bao la tranh duoc thai. Chi can cac ban co quan he tinh duc khong an toan thi “ngoai” hay “ trong”, “sau” hay “nong” ban van co the mang thai. O day, co the co hai truong hop la quan he roi cho xuat tinh ra ben ngoai hoac chi o gan am ho, nhung ca hai truong hop deu co the co thai.

Thong thuong, khi hai co quan sinh duc nam va nu co su tiep xuc voi nhau, nhat la co su xuat tinh cua nam gioi van co nguy co co thai vi tinh trung la nhung te bao di chuyen rat nang dong, chung co the tim duong len tan cac voi trung. Tuy nhien chung chi di chuyen trong chat dich goi la tinh dich, toc do di chuyen cua no la 1,5 – 2,5 mm/ phut. Neu co tu cung lam cho loi vao de dang thi tinh trung se toi duoc voi trung rat nhanh, chung chi mat khoang ngan la co the den duoc diem dich cua chung. “Chi can xuat tinh ben ngoai cua minh co ay, tinh trung van co the tu tim duong chui vao voi trung, gap trung de thu tinh, neu vao dung thoi diem trung rung thi nguoi con gai rat co the co thai”, BS Dung noi.

 

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